Once you Jimin, you can’t Jimout

Just in time to get around to write about my ultimate BTS bias (Park Jimin) life struck me with its never ending twist, turns and sneak attacks. The job I’ve held for over 11 years is coming to a close and I am going to find myself venturing into the job market after working with the …

Jungkookie wrecks us all

For those of you who don’t know, in K-pop there’s a thing called a bias and a bias wrecker. The same way the world of sports, gaming, dancing, IT, medicine, has its own language, K-poping does the same. Bias is your favorite individual in a group. Not to be confused with being a solo stan …

Here comes the sun

It is no lie that BTS cheers me up. It is no lie that they lift my mood and take me outside my own head, where for the past three year it’s all been gloom and doom most of the time whether I want it or not.  They can make me happy, sometimes superficially happy …

How the God of Destruction fixed me

At the lowest points of my life I was saved from the bottom of the well by BTS. It may sound silly or dramatic, and while I do have a flair for it, in this case I swear I am not exaggerating. It makes me feel a bit guilty thinking of my family and friends …

CONSTANT VIGILANCE

When you find yourself unrelentingly sad, it makes you think back to the days when you took happiness for granted. That first year after the election I found I had to reacquaint myself with the new person I had become. I had to reframe all the thoughts I used to have about things.  I had …