Have Courage and Be Kind

T/W: Mentions of suicide in the content. Last night my mom, my sister and I sat down, two bottles of wine at the ready, giant popcorn bowl, homemade bibimbap in our laps and Netflix on queue for a marathon of their reality TV show Love is Blind. Neither one of us is a Reality TV …

THE GIFT OF ARMY

I am thankful for BTS every single day. Every single day? Really Blog lady? Every and each day? Yes, I said what I said! Each day. Every day.  Now more than ever with the world we live, with the daily horrors visited upon us, small and big, monumental and micro aggression, it is a difficult …

Once you Jimin, you can’t Jimout

Just in time to get around to write about my ultimate BTS bias (Park Jimin) life struck me with its never ending twist, turns and sneak attacks. The job I’ve held for over 11 years is coming to a close and I am going to find myself venturing into the job market after working with the …

Jungkookie wrecks us all

For those of you who don’t know, in K-pop there’s a thing called a bias and a bias wrecker. The same way the world of sports, gaming, dancing, IT, medicine, has its own language, K-poping does the same. Bias is your favorite individual in a group. Not to be confused with being a solo stan …

Here comes the sun

It is no lie that BTS cheers me up. It is no lie that they lift my mood and take me outside my own head, where for the past three year it’s all been gloom and doom most of the time whether I want it or not.  They can make me happy, sometimes superficially happy …

How the God of Destruction fixed me

At the lowest points of my life I was saved from the bottom of the well by BTS. It may sound silly or dramatic, and while I do have a flair for it, in this case I swear I am not exaggerating. It makes me feel a bit guilty thinking of my family and friends …